When a fibromyalgia flare
hits, the body feels hijacked. Pain
spikes, fatigue doubles, brain fog turns thoughts into
static. Decision-making—already heavy—becomes impossible. Ironically, that’s
when good decisions matter most: do I push, rest, medicate, hydrate, call for
help?
That’s why I created
a “flare decision tree”: a simple, step-by-step printable that guides you through
choices without requiring clear thinking in the moment. Instead of spiraling or
second-guessing, you follow the branches—fast, practical, self-compassionate.
Below you’ll find the
full printable text you can copy, customize, and tape to a wall, journal, or flare cart.
Flare Decision Tree (Patient-Friendly Printable)
Start Here:
“I’m in a flare. My brain may not make great choices right
now. Follow the tree, one step at a time.”
1. Safety First
- Do
I feel sudden new or dangerous symptoms?
- YES: Chest pain, shortness of breath, slurred speech, black stool,
severe new neuro changes → CALL 911 or doctor immediately.
- NO: Go to Step 2.
2. Body Check-In
- Am
I dehydrated? (Dry mouth, headache, dizziness)
- YES: Drink water or electrolyte solution.
- NO/UNSURE: Sip fluid anyway.
- Am
I under-fueled? (Last meal more than 3–4 hrs ago?)
- YES: Eat something easy (banana, soup, crackers +
protein).
- NO: Continue.
3. Pain Level Now
- Mild
(1–3/10): Try pacing + light
movement (gentle stretch, micro-walk, heat).
- Moderate
(4–6/10): Layer supports: heat/cold
packs, compression, distraction (audio, coloring, TV), relaxation breath.
- Severe
(7–10/10): Use rescue plan (meds if
prescribed, bed rest with support pillows, noise/light reduction).
4. Energy Conservation
Ask: Do I
absolutely need to do this task today?
- YES,
urgent: Break it into smallest
steps. Rest between. Ask for help if possible.
- NO,
can wait: Write it down for later.
Permission to pause.
5. Stress + Sensory
Load
- Too
noisy/bright/crowded?
- YES: Lower input—dim lights, use headphones, close
eyes, retreat to quieter space.
- NO: Continue.
6. Comfort Reset
Choose one (or stack
if helpful):
- Heat
wrap or electric pad
- Warm
shower or bath (if safe)
- Weighted
blanket or comfort pillow
- Guided
meditation or soft music
- Favorite
low-effort activity (comedy, audiobook, nature video)
7. Restorative Action
- Set
a timer for 20–40 minutes rest.
- Use
position that reduces pain (pillows under knees, side-lying, reclined chair).
- After
timer, reassess symptoms.
8. Reassess After Rest
- Better: Resume gentle pacing, low-priority tasks only.
- Same: Repeat comfort supports, hydrate, and extend
rest.
- Worse
or alarming new symptoms: Call
provider or urgent care.
9. Emotional First Aid
- Say
to yourself: “This flare is not my fault. Rest is not failure. My only job is
to get through this moment.”
- If
spiraling: text a friend, journal 3 lines, or use grounding (5 things you
see, 4 feel, 3 hear, 2 smell, 1 taste).
10. Closing Reminder
No flare lasts forever.
Today, “enough” is survival, not productivity.
How to Use This
Printable
- Print
it out. Keep one copy by your
bed, another in your flare cart or recovery corner.
- Customize. Add your meds, specific comfort items, or
personal red-flag symptoms.
- Practice
on good days. Walk through the flow
once so it feels familiar.
- Let
others use it. Caregivers or family can
follow the tree if you’re too foggy to explain.
My Experience
Before I built my
decision tree, I lost hours spiraling during flares—should I push, cancel, take meds, eat,
sleep? By the time I decided, the flare
was worse. With the tree, I move step by step. Even if my brain is foggy, the
tree thinks for me. That alone reduces panic and helps me feel
more in control.
FAQs
1. Should this replace
medical advice?
No—it’s a personal support tool, not a substitute for doctor guidance. Customize
it with your provider’s input.
2. Can I add
medication steps?
Yes—write down your prescribed rescue meds and safe dosing windows.
3. What if I live
alone?
Add a “call list” to the printable—friends, family, telehealth numbers—in case
you need help.
4. Does this help with
non-pain fibro flares (like fatigue or gut)?
Yes—adjust supports to focus on energy conservation, hydration, and gentle
gut-friendly food.
5. Can I make a
digital version?
Absolutely—turn it into a checklist on your phone or Notion/Obsidian app for
portable use.
6. What if I feel
guilty for resting?
That’s why Step 9 exists. The printable is not just about the body—it’s
emotional first aid, too.
Final Thoughts
A flare decision tree isn’t about perfection—it’s
about survival with clarity. In moments when fibro steals executive function, this printable
gives it back.
It’s a map out of
panic, a reminder that you do know what to do, and proof that every small
act—hydration, heat, rest—is care, not failure.
Tape it where you’ll
see it. Hand it to loved ones. Let it hold you when your brain can’t.
Because when flares hit, fast choices aren’t about
strength—they’re about having a path ready before you need it.

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